In
our daily lives body language plays an important part, knowingly or
unknowingly. With just a few body gestures we can reveal a lot of things. It
may be meeting with the strangers, or can be a formal interactions with your
boss or colleagues at your workplace. For confident and successful people body language is the part of their apparel and make up. They never make a few mistakes as
they know it may affect their lives in a negative way. A few examples are here:
They never
avoid eye contact:
When
you avoid looking eye to eye, it reveals that you want to hide something. It
also reveals your low self confident. When you are in professional conversation
with your coworker, maintaining eye contact is essential. It conveys the
message that you are a man of strength and confidence. The handshake with loose
grip is the indication of insincerity. There are person who shake hands by
sandwiching other’s hand. This is very
much awkward. They are literally wishing to take the upper hand.
They never
slouch
Slouching or bad posture is the warning sign of your lack of confidence. It is the clearest
indication that you have a low energy level. The curved back, shoulder pointing inward,
crossed arms and legs are all the indication of something of your low confidence. On the other hand, a straight
back and shoulder maximizes your amount of confidence and power of assertions.
They never
make weak handshake
Although
handshake lasts for a few seconds, it leaves a great impressions. Firm
handshake suggests self confidence and strong will power. On the other hand, weak handshake
is the indication that you lack authority and power. So make sure that your handshake is always firm and strong.
They never
expose exaggerated gestures
Exaggerated,
or overjoyed gestures can be the indication that you are stretching the truth
or you are chaotic. Communicate with controlled gestures that is the clear indication of your leadership and confidence. Showing palm of your hands during
the interaction is the indications that you are very much open and have nothing
to hide.
They never
indulge in Fidgeting
The
biting of nails, playing with your hair, tapping your fingers on the table are
the examples of fidgeting that clearly shows that you are in anxiety.
They never
refuse to smile when necessary
Smiling is the expression of confidence and energy, and also an openness. In the formal
expressions it sets the mirror to your listeners to instruct them to smile back.
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